Saturday, February 5, 2011

The Vocabulary Of The Mega-Rich And Super-Successful

There are rich words and there are poor words. You can't expect the Rich and the poor to have the same vocabulary...because they don't. While the Rich employ rich, positive words to describe their situations even under ugly conditions, the poor rather have an unhealthy reservoir of poor, negative words. The power of the tongue is the greatest mystery underrated by man. Get this straight: positivity beats negativity by as much as riches beat poverty. The men who ever won never said 'it can't be done'. You say, "imhons, how do words have anything to do with all these?". I say "the physical realm is governed by rules, the spiritual realm is governed by words". And in the words of a renowned sage, 'what you do not possess in the spiritual realm you do not recieve in the physical realm'. Confess that which you desire to possess. Believe what you confess and the forces will move to let you possess it. The mouth that constantly professes negative things has a mind in need of urgent repair. The poor's vocabulary is full of words like: 'it isn't possible', 'it can't be done', 'it's not feasible', 'i can't make it', 'i just can't', 'i accept my fate', 'it's gonna be a bad day', 'my day was horrible', 'it's impossible', 'i'm a loser', 'i hate my job'. In the vocabulary of the rich and the successful,expect to find words like: 'my best is yet to come'. 'i'm the change Nigeria needs'. 'i'm gonna have a great day'. 'it's a wonderful morning'. 'i am rich'. 'i'm terrific, great, fabulous'. 'i can do it'. 'i'll try again'. 'it's very much possible'. 'it can be done'. 'i'm a winner'. 'i'm always on the winning side'. 'i love my job'. 'i'll take up a new challenge'. 'we'll make it happen' -- all with a smile. Words have power. What you say it is, is what it is.

Financial IQ Tips

Becoming a millionaire has little to do with who you are but more with what you have and know. It has little to do with your university degrees and more to do with your financial education. You do not have to be a genius to be rich and successful. Statistics even show that the richest people in the world are not geniuses but creative-minded, risk-taking business owners. But you can't be that over night. You have to start investing in yourself first. Read financial books, attend seminars/ workshops, subscribe to relevant financial newsletter, go get accomplished mentors- learn only from those who have been where you want to be and done what you want to do. Act on every thing you learn as soon as you learn it. Nothing beats 'learning' like 'doing' . Time Management is as essential as Action Management. Surround yourself with the right kind of bright minds. Pay for their services if you have. Don't waste precious time trying to do very many little things that can easily be delegated. The time gained could be used to tackle the few big things that matter. Don't just aim to be self-employed. But strive to build a system round your special skills or talent. Building a system entails you finding a way to reach more people with your goods and services while having people work for you. With all your getting go get knowledge. Among the first thing you must know,though is who an investor and a trader is. Note the differences between a trader and an investor. And try find a way to be both. Now that's financial intelligence!

Financial Tips

Everyone wants to wake up one morning and find themselves rich and successful. Truth be told, that can't happen unless you have not been sleeping all night. To achieve your life's dreams, you need to start asking yourself the right questions. How honest you are with your answers and how passionate you are about setting things right will go a long way in getting you to where you want to be. Let me help with a few of my own: 1. Where Are You Now? Be dissatisfied with wherever that may be. 2. Where Are You Headed? It costs nothing to imagine. 3. How Would You Start? Start small,take baby steps. 4. Would You Like To Go Alone? The shortcut is to use other people's resources. 5. What Do You See? Problems or possibility, challenges or opportunity. 6. Who Is In Charge Of Your Life? Take it, it's yours. 7. Are You There Already? Then, Give! Give! Give!

Money Wise

Money is a powerful force. But it's not the most powerful force in the universe. Love is. But Money is as important as any. Money is not the root of all evil; the love of money is. So ignore the fables of old housewives. Stop having the wrong notions about money. Money is not evil. Not all who have it are ritualists, rogues, robbers, 419-ers or politicians. There abound numerous industrialists, entrepreneurs, educationists, etc who are wealthy and still have their integrity in tact. So it is good to desire money if what you have in mind to use it for is noble and pure. Learn to control it and not have it control you. See the acquisition of money as a means to an end and not the end in itself. You are not poor if you have no money,bt you are the poorest if you have not a single money-making idea. If you have a little,set yourself up to attract more. Remember, Money is a force,so you be a Magnet. If you have more,invest in others and you will truly be fulfilling your destiny.

The World At Your Feet

The world will stop to acknowledge that Man who inspite of every challenge, every trial, every trouble, every limitation, never gave up trying. So stop trying to understand the world and start trying to understand yourself. Do not be afraid to try, to make mistakes (not the same one twice- that's not wise), to attempt new things. Allow yourself to Dream Big. To Think Big. Be willing to Start small. Be open to new Ideas. Be Creative. Be Ready to Learn. Infact, take Learning very seriously,it's the best way to invest in self. And you get to find hidden secrets that will help you on your way to where you are headed. Do not take relationships for granted;for your Networth is determined by your Network. Above all, Invest, Act, Sell. Give! Give! Give! And soon the world will be at your feet!

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

HOW TO BE THE GIRLFRIEND YOUR MAN WILL LOVE FOREVER

If you are wondering how to be a girlfriend then maybe you are also concerned about how your relationship is going. When we have a relationship that doesn't seem to work, it would not be unrealistic to think that perhaps we need to do something different, and perhaps guys think that girlfriends are someone we are not.
So how do we find out how to keep a boyfriend and be the girl whom he will love forever?
One of the common fallacies is that when the guy gets the girl, that is the end. It is shown like that in all the major romantic movies and told in our children's stories, one example, Beauty and the Beast. But it is not the end, but really only the beginning. Movies and stories don't tell us about everyday life with your partner, probably because it is boring and takes a long time, but it is in the everyday little things and over a long period that a relationship is built or broken.
So how do you become a fantastic girlfriend and woo your man for the rest of your lives together?
Here are a few tips to get you pointed in the right direction:
Acceptance - too often we get together with a guy who takes our fancy, thinking that he is lovely if only for... and then think that we can "fix" that and change him so that he is "better." Wrong! Respect him and yourself enough to accept him for who he is. If he really is not the guy for you, then don't settle for second best, you owe him and yourself more than that.
Inter-dependence - as much as you like being together, it is also healthy for both of you to have time to yourselves, cultivating interests and maintaining other friendships. You can be together and still have time for other people too. You come together and spend time with your partner because you choose to, not because you need to.
Communication - it is a well-known and accepted concept that God created us with two ears but only one mouth and that we need to be careful in our choice of words. There is a lot of power in the spoken word and they cannot be easily retracted, so be careful and loving in the things you talk with your lover about. Engage in interesting conversations with each other and give each other opportunities to listen as well as share thought, feelings and dreams. If you have issues, deal with them in a loving and caring way without blaming each other.
Tolerance - just because your man loves you, does not mean that each of you will also fall in love with each other's family or friends. As long as you can accept the other's family as they are and can be polite and respectful to them, you don't need to ask more of each other in that regard. It is absolutely great if your man and your family and friends get on like "a house on fire" but that does not always happen and it does not mean anything, just that you cannot like everybody and the same goes for your partner.
Transparency - be open and honest with your guy and don't resort to playing mind games with him. If you try to manipulate your relationship with your man to get what you think you want, you will lose out big time. He will not know who you are, catch you out at it and more than likely have enough and leave. Men, generally, are not into game playing and if they are, perhaps you would be wise to think carefully about the relationship as well.
There are some proven ways to build great relationships and get the love you want in your relationship, so if you are wondering how to be a girlfriend that your man will love forever then take action and check them out. Once you have an idea of what to do, put it into practice and watch your relationship change for the better.
Go through the link if you want to find out how to be a girlfriend that your man will love forever, and find out exactly how you can make that happen.
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Become the woman you have always wanted to be, and the woman your man will desire - Jo Baker

HOW TO FIND TIME TO ENJOY YOUR LIFE

If it seems like there is not nearly enough time to do the necessary things anymore-never mind the things one might like to try-the solution might seem a little paradoxical: slow down. That's right, take a few steps back and evaluate what has really been going on in life. Prioritize what is really important in life and let go of the things that are not. Take college for example: is that Liberal Arts degree going to do anything for you in a world where there are no jobs to be had? What good does it do to be prepared for a teaching position when less and less people are able to afford the schooling? Unless one has had good foresight and gone into computers, military or the health field, the phrase "ya want fries with that?" might become the new job mantra.
For those with growing families, the panic to provide for the children can lead to never seeing those children grow up. Do the kids really need another toy, another video game, or the hottest new fashion trend? Don't those kids really need-and deserve-loving, present parents? Think about it selfishly for a minute...are these kids that will take care of their parents if it becomes necessary, or will they shuttle them off to the cheapest nursing home they can find? Will your children think of you with love or be indifferent to what happens to you?
Really now, let's get down to what is really important in life...and that would not be owning the newest whiz-bang stuff. What is important is Love and Peace, family and friends, and experiences that bring everyone together in Harmony. The human machine was not made to be under constant stress and unrelenting problems. We were made to thrive with challenges, yes, but not to go without love. If you doubt that, look into the medical studies done on infants that have been abandoned and while fed and diapered but not held and loved, have perished.
Look at people in love...they glow with an aspect of wonder and awe when gazing at their beloved. That connection, that absolute acceptance, is what we all crave, whether we admit it or not. People who have no one to love them get that love from their pets, who give love freely. Hey, if even the animals know we all need love, what the heck is wrong with us? If we will but take a little time for ourselves and our loved ones, refusing money in favor of love, our world will become a far better place. We don't need another widget or the newest fashion piece but we do need connection, love and affection. So take the time to enjoy family and friends, sharing dinner, a walk, or a free event. Let the people you care about know how much you appreciate them and how important they are to you. Speak from the heart; it will never lead you astray.
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Dr. Valerie Olmsted is an author, naturopathic physician, metaphysician, internet entrepreneur, artist, speaker, and lover of life. Traveling with the Quantum Vortex Experience, she has helped thousands of people reach the inner connection they are seeking and has contributed to the discoveries of manifestation practices via quantum physics applications. For more information of that nature, go to http://www.BeWhoYouReallyAreCoach.com
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